If I am waiting in the queue, finnish people will
wait until I decide to move.
Description
Last month , with exchanges students we were waiting
write outside Kalle at the beginning of the party. As soon as we arrived, our group were taking
up the entire space of the sidewalk. Consequently
the rest of the queue cannot go ahead at the pace they would like to. Thus the
interesting fact is that enven if they could’t move on, they were not daring to
lead the situation. Rather, they were waiting without saying anything instead
of asking us to move forward. After few
minutes we have come to understood the situation.
Interpretation
When I reconsider the situation, I thinks that
this clearily represent finnish behaviour in everyday life. For me, on the
basis that Kokkola is not a city « overpopulated », people certainly seem to have no fair
advantages. Here it’s difficult to discern a sense of competion, their is no
rules that will make them less important
and inferior to others. Consequently, its fed into our minds that they have to
follow order because the queue indicates a certain kind of egalitarianism. By
comparison, in some countries like India, this situation would be
psychologically unacceptable to many people. Indians are known to try to
minimize costs by jumping the line (because of services are usually overtaxe
and they want to save money). Thus for finnish people waiting in the queue is
deep in their mind and their cultures.
Evaluation
I thinks that waiting in line and respecting
one another is what makes the world go round. Hence I never assume that someone
or another time is more important than mine. However it seem difficult to
accept that I have to wait because someone is distracted by something. A simple
comment would have been enough to unblock the situation.
Paul Berastgeui
Fins will actually almost never tell you to do something if the situation got awkward, so I found it to be really important to keep an eye on everything myself.
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